Part 5: On consistency; honesty, openness, plain speaking, reliability
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Nì palaba, ní wonko, ẹ̀rẹ̀kẹ́ á ṣèkan. 
Either sunken or swollen, the cheeks will be one or the other. 
(If one is not one way one must be the other way; one cannot be no way at all.) 
 
Nígbàtí ọwọ́ ò tẹ ìjàdù là ńní kò sí ohun tí à ńjẹ tí kì í tán. 
It is when one has come up empty in a scramble for food that one says there is nothing one eats that is not finished sooner or later. 
(An affectation of indifference is often disguised disappointment.) 
 
  
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